Talking about money can get awkward – but that doesn’t need to be the case. Whether you’re discussing overdue rent, splitting bills or asking for a loan from a relative, here are some ways to have easier, more confident conversations.
The key to any good money conversation is the what and when.
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Know what your ideal outcome would be. The more facts and figures you have at hand, the better you can make your case – and you’ll feel more in control of the conversation. For example, if you want to borrow money from a friend or family member:
The way you talk about money is as important as what you’re talking about. Stay friendly and positive, and consider your choice of words. Try using ‘I statements’ instead of ‘You statements’. For example: “I want to pay the rent on time” is less confrontational than “You’re always late with your share of the rent”.
Be clear about what you need or want. If you need that £20 you loaned to a friend returned, tell them. If you can’t or don’t want to spend money on something, say so. And be upfront if you think it’s best if one or both of you had a conversation with your bank.
Don’t expect an answer on the spot if you’re talking about significant figures or budget changes.
Once you’ve wrapped up the conversation, make sure that everyone knows what the next steps are. That way, you can avoid a more awkward conversation in the future.
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